Best Answer: Haha, you're going to get trolled in other answers for this, just saying. I'll answer seriously, but just expect others to flame you for no real reason, it's not bad of you to ask this... it just happens a lot and people lose their tempers. This is a very common question, actually, and I think just about everybody has wondered it at some point, even younger lesbian/bisexual girls. Still doesn't stop some people from losing their nut when hearing it.
Alright, first of all, in female-female relations all the parts are the same, there's just no penis. Oral stimulation of the breasts, clitoral region, etc. etc. are very common, as are just touching, and using one's fingers in lieu of a penis. Just like in a straight relationship there's foreplay, kissing, soft touching, etc. There's really no difference there.
When you get into the 'sex toys' as many (but not all) lesbian couples do, there are dildos, strap-ons, and vibrators. A dildo is... picture a cucumber. Basically, it is designed to create the same motions as the penis would in a heterosexual relationship, it can be made smaller for beginners, but generally they are bigger than the average guy.
A strap on is a harness that goes around a girl's waist, and just over the pubic bone a dildo is attached. This makes lesbian sex a lot like heterosexual sex, as it is in many ways similar to a penis, and sex 'looks' more heterosexual. A few people say this means a girl isn't actually lesbian if they use strap-ons because it's some repressed desire for a male, and I'll tell you now if anybody ever tells you that, it's not true. The positions you can use with a strap on are just more intimate, and the fact it's a girl on top of a girl and not vice versa mean that theory is false.
A vibrator is exactly what it sounds like. It vibrates. It stimulates the clitoral region faster and arguably more effectively than a finger or tongue could. Vibrators can be used in a lot of different ways, for example, some are attached onto strap-ons so the giver so to speak can receive physical pleasure at the same time as their partner. I haven't personally used one, but have known girls who have and some lesbian girls really enjoy vibrators, and some don't enjoy them as much.
Of course those are just some of the sex toys that a couple may choose to use. Just like heterosexual couples, different toys can be used, maybe whipped cream or a blindfold or whatever. Just like heterosexual couples, lesbians can be kinky, have fetishes, etc. etc. The rate is pretty much the same as heterosexual couples.
And of course scissoring. 'Scissoring' is a very stereotypical lesbian way to have sex, but I personally have never seen anybody claiming it's possible for them. Basically both partners spread their legs as if they are a pair of scissors, put their erogenous zones in contact with each other, and open and close their legs slightly, or move and grind against each other. I've heard some people say it's possible, but only with a partner with the right proportions, and I've heard some people say it's impossible. I wouldn't say this is a very common method, if at all possible, but just because it is so stereotypical it's in deserving of a mention.
That's pretty much the basics of how lesbians can have sex. Keep in mind that some people will choose to do some of these, some couples will do all of these, and some couples may do none of these. Some couples will use some or all of the toys I listed, some will never use a toy because it doesn't appeal to them.
When it comes down to it, lesbians having sex is very similar to how a boy pleasures a girl during sex, there are just different ways to get there. Girls can be slightly harder to please sexually than a guy can, but the advantage of being with another girl is that the two have the same parts and know what generally feels good, while some boys can be a little bit lost.
Alright, first of all, in female-female relations all the parts are the same, there's just no penis. Oral stimulation of the breasts, clitoral region, etc. etc. are very common, as are just touching, and using one's fingers in lieu of a penis. Just like in a straight relationship there's foreplay, kissing, soft touching, etc. There's really no difference there.
When you get into the 'sex toys' as many (but not all) lesbian couples do, there are dildos, strap-ons, and vibrators. A dildo is... picture a cucumber. Basically, it is designed to create the same motions as the penis would in a heterosexual relationship, it can be made smaller for beginners, but generally they are bigger than the average guy.
A strap on is a harness that goes around a girl's waist, and just over the pubic bone a dildo is attached. This makes lesbian sex a lot like heterosexual sex, as it is in many ways similar to a penis, and sex 'looks' more heterosexual. A few people say this means a girl isn't actually lesbian if they use strap-ons because it's some repressed desire for a male, and I'll tell you now if anybody ever tells you that, it's not true. The positions you can use with a strap on are just more intimate, and the fact it's a girl on top of a girl and not vice versa mean that theory is false.
A vibrator is exactly what it sounds like. It vibrates. It stimulates the clitoral region faster and arguably more effectively than a finger or tongue could. Vibrators can be used in a lot of different ways, for example, some are attached onto strap-ons so the giver so to speak can receive physical pleasure at the same time as their partner. I haven't personally used one, but have known girls who have and some lesbian girls really enjoy vibrators, and some don't enjoy them as much.
Of course those are just some of the sex toys that a couple may choose to use. Just like heterosexual couples, different toys can be used, maybe whipped cream or a blindfold or whatever. Just like heterosexual couples, lesbians can be kinky, have fetishes, etc. etc. The rate is pretty much the same as heterosexual couples.
And of course scissoring. 'Scissoring' is a very stereotypical lesbian way to have sex, but I personally have never seen anybody claiming it's possible for them. Basically both partners spread their legs as if they are a pair of scissors, put their erogenous zones in contact with each other, and open and close their legs slightly, or move and grind against each other. I've heard some people say it's possible, but only with a partner with the right proportions, and I've heard some people say it's impossible. I wouldn't say this is a very common method, if at all possible, but just because it is so stereotypical it's in deserving of a mention.
That's pretty much the basics of how lesbians can have sex. Keep in mind that some people will choose to do some of these, some couples will do all of these, and some couples may do none of these. Some couples will use some or all of the toys I listed, some will never use a toy because it doesn't appeal to them.
When it comes down to it, lesbians having sex is very similar to how a boy pleasures a girl during sex, there are just different ways to get there. Girls can be slightly harder to please sexually than a guy can, but the advantage of being with another girl is that the two have the same parts and know what generally feels good, while some boys can be a little bit lost.